Indeed. A lot of advice is only good when you don't need to maintain a relationship. I had a manager who kept saying variants of "How can I do that?" Within a y

Indeed. A lot of advice is only good when you don't need to maintain a relationship. I had a manager who kept saying variants of "How can I do that?" Within a year multiple people left the team. It works the first few times, but you get sick of that quickly enough. My prior comments on the book: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29940964 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29940964