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the problem with insensitive people isn't that they don't intuit the logic of this theory. it's that they insist that they are in a different ring that would ju
by parpfish 2y ago
the problem with insensitive people isn't that they don't intuit the logic of this theory. it's that they insist that they are in a different ring that would justify their behavior.
- dredmorbius 2y agoWhich is where the role of guardians / gatekeepers, which I mentioned in an earlier comment on this thread, comes in: <https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41177346 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41177346> Those people politely but firmly and effectively remove such people to their appropriate ring.