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> Remember, you can say whatever you want if you just wait until you’re talking to someone in a larger ring than yours. Yeah, ... no. Not whatever you want.
by kazinator 2y ago
> Remember, you can say whatever you want if you just wait until you’re talking to someone in a larger ring than yours.
Yeah, ... no. Not whatever you want.
- Cthulhu_ 2y agoImportant to keep in mind. You can vent and ask for things, but you can't start violating boundaries.
- loveangus 2y agosharing privy information to outer rings will also negatively impact the inner rings, there's definitely a limit which the authors don't mention
- dredmorbius 2y ago"Whatever you want" means venting, negative thoughts, complaints, etc. Inner rings can complain out, and have no limits on those complaints. Outer rings cannot complain in. It's disappointing to see how many people fail to grasp this, even when stated simply and clearly.
- kazinator 2y agoLearn the difference between "fail to grasp" and "disagree". No, maybe it's not a good idea to vent, in any direction. Also: your estimate of which ring you are on relative to the person you are talking to may be off.