> Surely it is good practise to always try to offer comfort and support, and to listen, no matter who you are talking to That would be ideal if everyone had un

> Surely it is good practise to always try to offer comfort and support, and to listen, no matter who you are talking to That would be ideal if everyone had unlimited emotional reserves. Often though, those who are closer to the center have fewer reserves left over. If they were supporting those closer and those farther out they would be exhausted and no longer to support those closer to the center.