You wrote a nice, long comment, but one of the key points about both the post and the book is that you specifically don't parrot them. In fact, they explicitly

You wrote a nice, long comment, but one of the key points about both the post and the book is that you specifically don't parrot them. In fact, they explicitly state they are against parroting. Instead, you acknowledge and share in a child's feelings in a way that's supposed to develop their coping skills.