I agree in principle,and, from experience, even.. but "we"* tend to trust (the characters like) gvicino more :)( There needs to be that epsilon of absurd distr

I agree in principle,and, from experience, even.. but "we"* tend to trust (the characters like) gvicino more :)( There needs to be that epsilon of absurd distrust as well.. as an actual, physical, liminal raum, aka the no-man's land of truth or truce,aka the meatspace of quasi-community. *You and I (our "real" selves), but a direct sum?