I have no doubt that was the best possible outcome, that's why we committed to it. But I don't agree on using "she won't remember" as a sign of empathy. That's

I have no doubt that was the best possible outcome, that's why we committed to it. But I don't agree on using "she won't remember" as a sign of empathy. That's an excuse. You could do horrible things to babies based on that. There are various resources for parents to help children deal with vaccination and one of the common thing is to never mention the pain, so using the won't remember excuse won't fly. And the parents do remember