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has this really worked for you? cause from my experience, not only is OP right, but you are are effectively telling your spouse that "we are serious business, p
by rk06 2y ago
has this really worked for you? cause from my experience, not only is OP right, but you are are effectively telling your spouse that "we are serious business, pointless venting is not acceptable behaviour"
I highly recommend you to read this post on giving better advises: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41113807 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41113807
- makeitdouble 2y agoI wasn't reacting on the venting part, but on the "fix it" bit, which gives a "you say jump I say how high" vibe. We're all doing pointless venting, that's part of life.
- meiraleal 2y agoWelli, we are not. Some people feel entitled to pointless venting and some even think listening quiet is what is what others should do. That's spoiled child behavior