>>Put another way, unsolicited advice is unwelcome. You can replace advice with help and it would still be true. Mostly people need to do things and see for t

>>Put another way, unsolicited advice is unwelcome. You can replace advice with help and it would still be true. Mostly people need to do things and see for themselves. Experience is felt, it can't be explained or thought. >>Your spouse just wants to vent Most people want empathy, not help. Like they know what they are doing and why. They just want people to understand listen and atleast pretend to understand.