> You can be honest and direct without being an asshole Well yes, but I would claim in our weakling present day and age "honest and direct" gets equated to "as

> You can be honest and direct without being an asshole Well yes, but I would claim in our weakling present day and age "honest and direct" gets equated to "asshole". But, as the saying goes: “Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind!”