It works if it is given the right way, even if unsolcited, I think: Help the advisee to make the crucial deductions themselves. If you don't have the time for t

It works if it is given the right way, even if unsolcited, I think: Help the advisee to make the crucial deductions themselves. If you don't have the time for that, just leave them be, or you'll probably do more harm than good.