Unpacking #3 is fun. Like, yeah, often times people (not just spouses) want to vent, not receive actual advice. But "their mental model is wrong and they don't

Unpacking #3 is fun. Like, yeah, often times people (not just spouses) want to vent, not receive actual advice. But "their mental model is wrong and they don't care to correct it"? That's unfair. Maybe they're just tired? Maybe your own mental model isn't the only correct one? > even though it interrupted you and they could have fixed it themself. Oh no, not being interrupted by having to help your partner!