> Nobody has actually "been in your shoes." If you're seeking advice, I've found many people who have "been in my shoes" in regards to a specific topic and fou

> Nobody has actually "been in your shoes." If you're seeking advice, I've found many people who have "been in my shoes" in regards to a specific topic and found their advice extremely helpful. In a few cases it completely changed my life. The problem is everybody else. "Do you know what the difference is between your advice and this coffee? I asked for the coffee."