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Are you a woman? Have you had children? Have you partnered a woman as your child and her cried through the night, both trying to make this “breastfeeding” thing
by lll-o-lll 2y ago
Are you a woman? Have you had children? Have you partnered a woman as your child and her cried through the night, both trying to make this “breastfeeding” thing work; both failing. “How can something so intrinsic to basic survival, be so hard!”. And yet it is.
Talk confidently when you have experience.
- anthk 2y agoSucking it's a reflex; the rest it's pseudoscience. Your personal anecdothes don't count.
- jstanley 2y agoThat doesn't negate the fact that newborns have a suckling reflex.
- lamuswawir 2y agoHaving a reflex and breastfeeding are two different things. The baby can have the reflex, but the mother has no milk or the latching technique is poor (as mentioned elsewhere in these comments). So the child not breastfeeding doesn't mean there is no reflex. And yes, the process can be painful and stressful to many mothers most especially first timers (experience also counts).