I wonder too sometimes, there was a strong love between us. I thought that would be enough, but somehow it wasn't for me. Reading the article really helped hig

I wonder too sometimes, there was a strong love between us. I thought that would be enough, but somehow it wasn't for me. Reading the article really helped highlight some failings: >The type of person I’m assuming we’re looking for here is 1) someone that you will find fascinating to talk to after you’ve talked for 20,000 hours, 2) you feel comfortable with them talking through the hardest and most painful decisions you will face in your life, and 3) the conversation is wildly generative for both of you, in that it brings you out, helps you become. With my Ex, we were great at (2), but (1) and (3) were lacking and we'd resort to friends and colleagues to get that feedback.