What's good and bad is pretty subjective :) To each his/her own. And it's not like I'm controlling him/her. I just want to know for my own sake - if they need

What's good and bad is pretty subjective :) To each his/her own. And it's not like I'm controlling him/her. I just want to know for my own sake - if they need to contact me, they can. If they are safe, I know.