Move to a different area where you feel uncomfortable at first, and try to get to know people there and see their good sides. Assimilate to whatever degree you

Move to a different area where you feel uncomfortable at first, and try to get to know people there and see their good sides. Assimilate to whatever degree you feel comfortable (i.e. don't give up your core values, but be willing to try new things and hear new perspectives open-mindedly). Do it again a few years later. And again. And again. The internet is biased towards your interests in a way that the real world isn't. Often the cultural geography of a place is a whole package, you can't just pick your own little bubble like on reddit or HN. Even if you just go grocery shopping or go out to public places and events, you'll run into different kinds of people.