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Not sure about US culture, but this seems to carry a peculiar assumption that men should date around same age? Because I doubt most 20yo women in "midwest" are
by jalapenos 2y ago
Not sure about US culture, but this seems to carry a peculiar assumption that men should date around same age? Because I doubt most 20yo women in "midwest" are married with a kid or two. Maybe some bits of cultural bagage you need to shed there.
- bradlys 2y agoThe US is also very expensive place to live. If you don’t get with someone similar to yourself, you’re sandbagging your financial situation. Most people can’t afford a single income household here in the US.
- SkyPuncher 2y agoMight not have two kids, but not single is absolutely true. People here tend to find a partner pretty quickly in life. Anecdotally, a friend is trying to date in her early 30s and basically has no dating pool. Not many single men in their 30s have a stable job, crime free background, and avoid hard drugs.
- jalapenos 2y agoA good lesson for everyone: your life's time horizon isn't anywhere close to your life expectancy. There are things you need to get right before 30 if you don't want the rest of your life to be misery.