> people who expect me to care about my appearance You seem to care about your appearance a lot, and also seem to be putting a lot of effort into cultivating a

> people who expect me to care about my appearance You seem to care about your appearance a lot, and also seem to be putting a lot of effort into cultivating a particular image. There used to be a lot of punk rockers in high school who "didn't care about fashion" but somehow all dressed exactly alike and had very similar haircuts.