In this encoding of the problem, the graph is fully connected, the edges indicate the state of a connection (ie. friendship) between 2 users, and the goal is

In this encoding of the problem, the graph is fully connected, the edges indicate the state of a connection (ie. friendship) between 2 users, and the goal is to check that there is either a chain of 2 "connected" edges (A to B and B to C for any A,B,C in the nodes) or 2 "disconnected" edges, which indeed isn't easy to do the tedious way. The crucial property here is the symmetry between connected and disconnected edges: for any given configuration, if it's difficult to check it on one hand, then it should be easy to do it on the other.