> Norms were loosened around being an absentee father. So more men took the option. > But nobody wants to admit it because it upsets people. Author can explai

> Norms were loosened around being an absentee father. So more men took the option. > But nobody wants to admit it because it upsets people. Author can explain "everyone". > Instead, we retreat to discussions of poverty and economics because talking about family and parenting makes people feel weird and judgmental. And again.