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Do you put effort into relationships without thinking of which ones will give you some benefit, even an intangible one like feeling good?
by 01HNNWZ0MV43FF 2y ago
Do you put effort into relationships without thinking of which ones will give you some benefit, even an intangible one like feeling good?
- 331c8c71 2y agoNah, outside of my family I just hang out with people I click with.
- 01HNNWZ0MV43FF 2y agoI assert that the difference between normal friendship ("I hang out with people I click with") and the way some define transactional relationships ("I put effort in proportional to what I can get from someone")... Is a difference of intention and vibes, not a real concrete measurable difference. I think everyone values people for what they can do for them. It's only called narcissism or Machiavellianism when you mess it up and hurt someone