I know both sides, being admin or mod and being a normal user. I never got banned, however banned users. I realized that this very act can be devastating to on

I know both sides, being admin or mod and being a normal user. I never got banned, however banned users. I realized that this very act can be devastating to one person while the rest (others involved, passive or active) simply moves on and in 99% of the time forgets about the issue. Moral of the story: whenever there is some sort of asymmetry of people involved, one faces harsh consequences while the other or others don’t, do the same. Forget about it, this grudge is totally one sided. Or build your own company out of spite. But never let a ban compromise your mental health.