Agreed, this has little to do with gender. Other common situations are going to bars for company outings when people don't drink; doing outdoor type outings wh

Agreed, this has little to do with gender. Other common situations are going to bars for company outings when people don't drink; doing outdoor type outings when people are physically impaired (obese or old or whatever). Some people are going to have to be left out of certain situations, it's unavoidable, for a variety of reasons. I probably wouldn't organize a company outing at hooters, but that said it's really not that controversial of a restaurant. I've seen families there the few times I've been there.