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For real. The concept of “you have to love yourself before you can love others” is cliché but.. bringing kids into the world, that are a massive responsibility,
by thatswrong0 2y ago
For real. The concept of “you have to love yourself before you can love others” is cliché but.. bringing kids into the world, that are a massive responsibility, I think should be a decision made with a full understanding of the work and love needed to do it right.
How tf are you gonna have the emotional capacity for kids if you don’t have it even for yourself??
- temporarely 2y agoAll happiness is rooted on purposive and positive mental ideation of one's existence. Having children will affect your mindset and worldview; for almost everyone I know this change has been positive.
- ivm 2y ago> All happiness is rooted on purposive and positive mental ideation of one's existence. This is just one of many views on the nature of happiness. For example, Buddhists have another view on it, including the possibility of achieving the unconditioned happiness (nibbana). > Having children will affect your mindset and worldview; for almost everyone I know this change has been positive. "Almost", so there's still a chance it could be a negative change on a personal level, even before considering genetic risks. I think a gamble like that can't be suggested to a depressed person.
- xboxnolifes 2y ago> How tf are you gonna have the emotional capacity for kids if you don’t have it even for yourself?? As a counterpoint, I always have more capacity to help others than I do myself.