I'm saying that the love you have for your current child is the same (relatively speaking) that you'd have for future children. I understand what you're saying

I'm saying that the love you have for your current child is the same (relatively speaking) that you'd have for future children. I understand what you're saying but I guess I disagree that it matters. For example, if you want to have a child to experience the type of love we're talking about then you have a child. No one's to say someone else shouldn't have a child and thus not experience that kind of love. That's really the point I was trying to make.