I want: 1. Strictness by default and with no escape hatches; 2. Proper data types like all dates / times / datetimes / JSON etc. 3. In-process / embedded dat

I want: 1. Strictness by default and with no escape hatches; 2. Proper data types like all dates / times / datetimes / JSON etc. 3. In-process / embedded database. Almost all projects I worked on over the course of a 22 years of career did not need a separate node / VM / pod for a database. PostgreSQL / MySQL and SQLite are not some ideal polar opposites. There is potential for a lot of cross-pollination of features and the ability to achieve the perfect DB. There. Now you understand the comparison.