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Naming can be hard, because names are important. My wife and I legitimately sat down and came up with a list of 50 names we each liked, and from the 98 we had
by viridian 2y ago
Naming can be hard, because names are important.
My wife and I legitimately sat down and came up with a list of 50 names we each liked, and from the 98 we had totaled up, we applied a series of different filters to get to an answer over the span of several weeks.
First we each went through the list, and force removed half of them, each of us taking turns eliminating one at a time.
From the remaining 50 we rated them, and removed anything that scored under a 6 from either of us, or under 15 points total.
Then we had 20 left, that we talked through each fairly extensively. We covered etymology, popularity, age association, popular cultural associations, you name it. After that we each removed 5 more.
Once we were down to the top ten, armed with frankly far too much knowledge about these names at this point, we reranked them individually and tallied up the scores.
Two names stood head and shoulders above the rest, one scoring around a 19 total and the other scoring around a 17. Those became our daughter's first and middle names.
- themadturk 2y agoWe never intended to have children, ended up with two boys. The first was named by his mother's choice: First name after her father (a perfectly reasonable "Edward"), the middle name after my dad ("Leonard," which we never call him.) The second was even more of a surprise than the first, but that meant it was my turn: "Jonathan," after a favorite character from a novel. The middle name was chosen by his big brother, to give a little sense of ownership or participation: "Adam."