Small, private online enclaves. I also tend to find "my people" in terms of specific things about me in multiple specific activities. For programming, I have t

Small, private online enclaves. I also tend to find "my people" in terms of specific things about me in multiple specific activities. For programming, I have this one group. For trail running, I have this other group. Both contain deeper understandings, but for a subset of myself. As a bonus, decentralized social groups helps foster my independent thinking and questioning of my own biases. I associate with people from all walks of life and all political ideologies.