I don’t think I ever found them in a particular space, but the people who I’ve spent the most time with (family, roommates, the occasional colleague) seem to be

I don’t think I ever found them in a particular space, but the people who I’ve spent the most time with (family, roommates, the occasional colleague) seem to be “my people”. They put up with my idiosyncrasies and get what I try to be about, and eventually want to participate in long pedantic conversations.