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This is very true. Both giving and receiving attention to another human being is really important for the development of emotionally healthy connections. It i
by jmcqk6 2y ago
This is very true. Both giving and receiving attention to another human being is really important for the development of emotionally healthy connections. It is the foundation of authentic connection. This is why we've seen an epidemic of loneliness rise in step with our greater distractedness.
Giving and receiving attention is also a skill. You can get better at it.
- pmzy 2y agoIt is a skill, for sure. I still feel like I suck at it in many ways. But recognizing it is the first step to doing better. And pausing what you're doing when someone talks to you is a relatively easy thing to do.
- noxer 2y agoThe "epidemic of loneliness" (in the western world) is a made up thing by the media. There is no actual data to support it, there is some data that shows the opposite. There is some data that suggest very old people are more lonely but that might just be became on average they are much longer alive and independent after their partner dies compare to past generations. Here is a short ~5min video about the topic https://youtu.be/rVsKWQp-sq4 https://youtu.be/rVsKWQp-sq4