> only the feeling they had when you said it. The kind of situation I'm worried about is exactly what would affect this though. Like say your friend went on wh

> only the feeling they had when you said it. The kind of situation I'm worried about is exactly what would affect this though. Like say your friend went on what was supposed to be a fun trip they'd planned for months, but then their dad died in the middle. And you didn't write it down and just forgot it. So they come back and instead of "how're you doing?" or "I'm sorry to hear about your dad" you instead go "did you have fun partying?" or "how was the celebration?" or whatever. They probably wouldn't feel so great hearing you remembering the wrong thing?