> But who takes the trashes out, who fixes the sink, who drills holes, who paints, who does electrical job in the house? Who takes care of the cars' tires? Of t

> But who takes the trashes out, who fixes the sink, who drills holes, who paints, who does electrical job in the house? Who takes care of the cars' tires? Of the bicycles maintenance? And who finds a solution to every single f-cking computer issue in the house? My wife, mainly. I have no idea how cars work. She can’t seem to stop working on her motorcycle whenever she needs to clear her head. I think you took your family’s personal experience and ran really, really far with it. Also when I interviewed with Eagle River Water & Sanitation District, they did indeed have women going into the poop cisterns to actuate valves and swap out instrumentation. One of those women walked me through the experience and expectations. It involved walking/“swimming” through a million gallons of poop. She wanted to make sure I could also handle that. On a personal note, if the resentment is getting to be a lot to handle, you may benefit from either adjustments in expectations or from finding grace in the way you experience your emotions. You mentioned you may be right wing, so it’s not a stretch to think that you may be a man of God. Religion should help you reach that state of grace. If your church is not focused on helping you find Grace perhaps there is a better one for you.