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I believe the question is asked backwards. We should be asking why people decide to have kids in the first place. And it is not that easy to answer this questio
by benterix 2y ago
I believe the question is asked backwards. We should be asking why people decide to have kids in the first place. And it is not that easy to answer this question.
- fileeditview 2y ago[flagged]
- benterix 2y agoI do but the answer is not obvious, and when I talk to my friends it's often surprising, too. There is some complex dynamics at play, with varying levels of expectations on the part of both partners, often having quite different ideas as to why they decided to have kids (heck, this even changes in time post factum!), and what would make them have another one now.
- Jensson 2y agoYou do have to convince the ones who don't have kids, not the ones who do.