I downvoted you because I think that during a discussion about how people (in this case women) learn, figuring out common ways that people (in this case women)

I downvoted you because I think that during a discussion about how people (in this case women) learn, figuring out common ways that people (in this case women) seek help is a pretty valid concern. Maybe men do similar things when they are confused, or maybe not. I don't know enough about education to comment, but attempting to would be off topic anyways.