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Structure is meant to be broken. But the breaking of structure only works if you have it. I struggle to have a good routine but spontaneity happens more often
by iamthepieman 2y ago
Structure is meant to be broken. But the breaking of structure only works if you have it.
I struggle to have a good routine but spontaneity happens more often when I do.
If I go to the gym at 5:30 and do chores at 7 and go to work at 8 and eat lunch at noon and read at 6 and eat dinner at 7 and work on personal projects at 8 and go to bed at 10:30 then if something comes up I can say "I have an hour at lunch, lets meet" Or "I will skip my personal projects today and go to so and so's house"
If I'm just constantly chaotic then I'm always feeling harried and like I don't have time for anything. And even if I do make time for something spontaneous, then I'm feeling like I'm stealing time from myself even though I didn't really have anything planned during that time anyways.
Also 10x work is a silly idea to me. Progress happens in almost all areas because of consistency. Research, fitness, home life, relationships, work. They grow or produce or increase because you do them regularly not because you had some magical insight and suddenly need to disappear into a hole for a week to work on it.
His section on breaking routine feels like it completely misses the point.
"Serendipity loves randomness and hates routine"
There's also a saying that luck favors the prepared.
Rarely have a read a piece that is mostly well-written that resonates so poorly with me. It's like every insight he has is the opposite of my lived experience.