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Suppose he really wanted kids and learned she couldn't have any. It wouldn't exactly be "until death do we part", but I think much of western society has alrea
by lupusreal 2y ago
Suppose he really wanted kids and learned she couldn't have any. It wouldn't exactly be "until death do we part", but I think much of western society has already abandoned that standard anyway
- WarOnPrivacy 2y agoMy goal was a lifelong marriage. My mentality constantly evolved toward that goal. However, my judgment was insufficient and I didn't properly recognize that sustaining the marriage was harming our kids. In an earlier time, the harm would have been much less. Kids (my generation & earlier) once had direct, relationship-level access to a number of caring, invested adults - related and not. My kids had the two of us 24/7 and that's about it. My wife and I had 10x the parenting demands (time) put upon us that my parents, grandparents-> adults through human history had.