I'm gay and I don't evaluate other men or their capabilities against those that I have with my partner. (In fact, it could be scary or hilarious depending on wh

I'm gay and I don't evaluate other men or their capabilities against those that I have with my partner. (In fact, it could be scary or hilarious depending on which way I might try to do that). I understand this explanation and at first I was inclined to go along with it, but I'm almost more disturbed by the conclusion. [These] men have such limited exposure to "real" or other women that they can only shoe-horn other women as they perceive them? Based off a microscopic sample? Or am I just way out in left field? I don't mean to be.