> Are all of them men? What about their spouses? No. Many are, but I know some fairly successful tech women who worked at FAANGs and made great money as well.

> Are all of them men? What about their spouses? No. Many are, but I know some fairly successful tech women who worked at FAANGs and made great money as well. >but they overspend on everything -- groceries, dining, housing, cars, schools, vacations. Yes, I guess I was trying to say that in tech focused circle in SoCal, traditional status symbols take a back seat to upgraded houses, vacations, and dining. I don't know friends who buy themselves a rolex or fancy handbag if they get a huge bonus. They might treat themselves or friends to a high end dinner or a nice vacation instead.