I'm going to be real which means asking hard questions and probably sounding like a jerk. So be warned. > I just don't enjoy arguing about the structure of sof

I'm going to be real which means asking hard questions and probably sounding like a jerk. So be warned. > I just don't enjoy arguing about the structure of software anymore Why were these arguments happening in the first place? Were you starting them? Did you dislike the arguments or did you dislike losing them? >I'm tired of the personalities There will be personalities no matter what you do for a living (or even in retirement!). Some will suck, some will be cool, most will be both at different times. But if you are tired of ALL the personalities, maybe your own personality is the problem. > tired of the infantilization of the industry What is "the industry"? How was it infantilized? I feel you are leaving some important detail out of this particular frustration.