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The weird thing about documenting own weaknesses is that once you have identified them they technically have no reason to even exist (other than your laziness),
by strogonoff 2y ago
The weird thing about documenting own weaknesses is that once you have identified them they technically have no reason to even exist (other than your laziness), much less to be grounds for requirements you would force on others.
You can learn from my behavior that I don’t take criticism well and then tone it down; however, if I am self-aware enough to know and state explicitly that I don’t take criticism well, to then demand you to change your ways (and get offended if you don’t) seems just… childish, for lack of a better word.
Does this demonstrate my own ignorance about some aspect of psychology?
- burnished 2y agoMmm somewhat, yes. Recognizing a flaw/a need for a change and enacting it is not instantaneous under the best of circumstances.
- strogonoff 2y agoIt’s hard to see acknowledging and publicly documenting a flaw as anything but a request to help with its elimination, and eliminating a flaw is impossible without intentionally creating the triggering condition.