Seems like you have every combination of responses here! We went with totally separate. I owned a house so no rent or mortgage, so I just paid the bills and sh

Seems like you have every combination of responses here! We went with totally separate. I owned a house so no rent or mortgage, so I just paid the bills and she bought the food. I got paid more so it worked fine. Mind you, I don't really care about money other than having enough to do stuff so it might depend on your attitude. We did split but it had nothing to do with money.