2 ms·You’re not tougher if you’re harming yourself or others to cope.by relaxing 2y agoYou’re not tougher if you’re harming yourself or others to cope.keiferski 2y agoThe idea that everyone prior to contemporary times was harming themselves or others to cope is nonsense.relaxing 2y agoI think we’re talking about some sort of population average. A median New Yorker.