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> Ever since that back and forth about "East Coast being kind vs West Coast being nice" thing a while back Missed the thing but what a front-loaded mess. What
by WarOnPrivacy 2y ago
> Ever since that back and forth about "East Coast being kind vs West Coast being nice" thing a while back
Missed the thing but what a front-loaded mess. What we want to say is
Nice sucks, be kind.
The rest feels unhelpful. Kinder to state the principle and let folks chew on it.
- brudgers 2y agoA person can be both...though that might just be skilled kindness.
- WarOnPrivacy 2y agoYou're right. Doubly so because either-or scenarios are usually false choices. The pithiness works in presentation but past that...
- NotMichaelBay 2y agoI agree with you but your delivery could have been... kinder.
- WarOnPrivacy 2y agoYou aren't wrong. The one-liner serves to isolate the goal from negative associations. But my delivery came with it's own neg assoc (against whoever came up with the E/W coast theory).