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If this phrase can mean anything, it doesn't mean anything anymore. Ie. you could also say that egoism is being kind to yourself etc.
by mirekrusin 2y ago
If this phrase can mean anything, it doesn't mean anything anymore.
Ie. you could also say that egoism is being kind to yourself etc.
- wtetzner 2y agoI interpreted it to mean that lying to someone isn't actually being kind, even if that was the intention.
- makeitdouble 2y agoI see "being kind" as towards others in the context of this discussion. If I feel I'm doing a disservice to the person by not speaking up, but still stay silent because I don't want to be confrontational or harsh, I don't think I'm being kind to the person. I'm only protecting the relation or myself, as I don't have the tools or a path to convey helpful information while making clear I'm having the person's good in mind. I see it as a failure in communication (it usually can be blamed on both parties), and clearly not a character quality.
- mirekrusin 2y agoI can also argue that "being smart" means I recognize feelings of others, because not doing it is stupid - so that implies kindness.