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just a few people are going to miss the smartest in the room, but everyone is going to miss someone kind How is the goal of having people miss you related to a
by ttoinou 2y ago
just a few people are going to miss the smartest in the room, but everyone is going to miss someone kind
How is the goal of having people miss you related to achieving business goals ? On the contrary if the smartest is able to produce a lot, people are going to miss him
On that topic, I’d rather have people trying to not become offended for little things, seems easier than faking kindness for personal benefits
- __s 2y agoIn general, the kindest people will be the ones who have the maturity to not be offended
- madeofpalk 2y agoPeople don't like working with jerks. I don't. It's hard to achieve business goals if no one wants to work with each other.
- ttoinou 2y agoThat’s your problem if you are offended too easily. They might not be jerks but you too sensible
- madeofpalk 2y agoMaybe, maybe not. We're talking about hypothetical examples here. As the jerk, you might not think it is your fault, but it is your problem if you are the common thread between other people not wanting to engage with you to meet "business objectives". Generally, I think it's useful to reflect on how your behaviour impacts the work of yourself and others around you. Even if you want to be as utilitarian as possible, work happens better around people who get on better with each other.
- watermelon0 2y agoThe idea is to be genuinely kind, not to fake it.
- ttoinou 2y agoRight, Im just assuming this kind of idea would push someone to look for environment with kind people over productive ones