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people say this because outside the mainstream thoughts do get downvoted alot on this board. which is maybe better than letting trolls take over, I'm kind of a
by pitt1980 14y ago
people say this because outside the mainstream thoughts do get downvoted alot on this board.
which is maybe better than letting trolls take over, I'm kind of agnostic about it
but alternative viewpoints are often dismissed here
(only example I can readily think of http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3460572 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3460572 , but I feel like I see it all the time)
- stretchwithme 14y agoHundreds of people may read and agree or disagree. And usually the number of down votes is very small by comparison.
- pitt1980 14y agoI'm sure that's the case putting a sentence about how your comment may be downvoted, is just a request not to have that small number reflexsively downvote, because sometimes that happens
- larrys 14y agoI guess I phrased the question incorrectly as I know the reason is is to avoid downvotes and the person is aware of what they are saying will get downvoted. My feeling is that by saying "sorry if this is insulting" or "I apologize in advance" or "before you downvote me" you are rolling over on your belly and appearing vulnerable by acknowledging your vulnerability and trying to show some humility. And in a sense you are setting up the contrast principle because the belly in comparison to the crime just doesn't seem so bad.
- pitt1980 14y agoits a rhetorical technique whether its effective seems situational "sorry if this is insulting" won't be effective if what you follow it with is truly insulting we all know thin skinned people though, sometimes the best way to get them to hear a benign (or neutral, or even constructive critism) comment that they might dismiss is to procede it with "sorry if this is insulting" so there are certain scenarios where I'd say those phrases are ok (this board with their sometimes quick downvoting, seems like an ok use to me)