People can be awkward and weird and have inconsistent moods and change their minds and aren't completely in sync with their feelings. These are the complexitie

People can be awkward and weird and have inconsistent moods and change their minds and aren't completely in sync with their feelings. These are the complexities of actual human beings. "Dan" is a fantasy, and unfortunately, just like high-production pornography, serves to give false expectations to young people, this time mostly women instead of mostly men.