> I think that in Anglo-American culture it's also usually a faux-pas to confront a 'phony' in casual conversation. I think it's typically a faux-pas to call o

> I think that in Anglo-American culture it's also usually a faux-pas to confront a 'phony' in casual conversation. I think it's typically a faux-pas to call out someone's bullshit/faults/shortcomings in mixed company in most situations. It's also not very likely to result in anything constructive or make you look good. Sometimes the truth just needs to be said, but generally you're better off telling people that truth in private or (when it really matters) raising concerns with someone who can do something about it. Calling someone out in public is high risk with little benefit. Rolling your eyes, biting your tongue, and letting someone dig themselves into a deeper hole is usually a smarter move.