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Another factor may be the decline in popularity of hosting dinner parties in blue cities. It’s nearly impossible to host a dinner for many people due to all the
by BenFranklin100 2y ago
Another factor may be the decline in popularity of hosting dinner parties in blue cities. It’s nearly impossible to host a dinner for many people due to all the dietary restrictions. Years ago, you might have had a vegetarian or two, but now we gluten intolerance, vegans, and people in general are far more vocal about dietary restrictions. A potluck is the best one can hope for when hosting a party for those under the age of 40.
- readthenotes1 2y agoI think you mean since women started working outside the home?
- BenFranklin100 2y agoNo I did not.
- NewJazz 2y agoYou aren't trying hard enough. One of my mother's friends has severe dietary restrictions due to health issues. They make it work.
- barbazoo 2y agoI think it also speaks to one's mindset when they talk about people that way. If I invite someone for a meal I want to know what their preferences but especially what their food allergies and intolerances are so I can make something they'll be able to eat and enjoy. I don't eat meat (I must be a "blue" household then according to parent) so I just eat whatever is there that doesn't have meat in it but if people know I'm a vegetarian and make a meat alternative that's great but not necessary. I'm not making a fuss about it but then again I'm not very confrontational, just isn't worth it. Parent is probably different and seems to know people who aren't like that.
- BenFranklin100 2y agoI am a very bad person, yes.
- barbazoo 2y agoBeing accepting of other people's shortcomings (food allergy/sensitivity/intolerance) and tolerant of their lifestyles (vegetarianism/veganism) are things that can be learned. I believe in you.
- BenFranklin100 2y agoI prefer being bad. Thank you.
- giraffe_lady 2y agoI do it all the time, it's really not hard. Make a filling vegan dish that's also gluten-free and most of the time that will cover everyone. Make the meat an optional garnish for that dish rather than the main feature. If you have a guest with an allium allergy you'll need a third thing. Sorbet, granita, or just fresh fruit for dessert will hit just about everyone. There are entire books about this if you need ideas but the core exercise is not difficult if you already know how to cook.
- BenFranklin100 2y agoSounds revolting, to be honest.
- NewJazz 2y agoWhat sounds revolting, sorbet?
- barbazoo 2y agoBeing accommodating and generally a decent human being apparently.
- BenFranklin100 2y agoNot imposing one’s personal preferences (i.e. veganism) on others is apparently as well.
- NewJazz 2y agoNo one is forcing you to invite such people over for dinner and cook for them. I'm sure they'd be happier not spending time with you, based on this short interaction I've had with you.
- BenFranklin100 2y agoI’m a very bad person, yes. And your comment speaks to innocuous parent post that dietary restrictions are leading to less people hosting dinner parties. See how that works?
- misiti3780 2y agojust dont invite them! i have dinner parties all of the time, if you're a vegan, you're not welcome.
- BenFranklin100 2y agoWe’ve taken to having dinner parties with friends in their 60 and 70s. Better food and more often than not, more interesting conversation too.